Sprinkle smiles!

We say negatives vibes move faster than all; I tell you smile is more powerful and infectious. Given how bad your mood is, a smile from a baby cools you down for few moments atleast. Smile grows as it spreads. But for sprinkling smiles all around over the dust of negative vibes, the source has to be happy too. A plastic smile would not do. A shortcut to smile is as useless as not smiling.

In this dark world, happiness has become pricey; it does not come by default .There are some happy ways which people have to embrace to the smile sprinklers: Some people have the in-born quality of livening any damp environment with their lively presence and witty remarks. They bind the group with an unseen force of joy and chuckles move around like bubbles. For people to gel with you, one has to be reach out to others and be approachable .It’s hard to imagine a sulking looking person sitting in a corner to attract such attention or a person with a constipated look to have people likeness at first go.

Being good listeners and taking everybody along, gives people a sense of comfort and help them to open up as well. The shell of awkwardness has to be cracked to let yourself free and laugh. Sometime, all a depressed person wants is to be just listened. Patient listeners are hard to find these days.

But for all the above to happen genuinely, one thing has to be there: person should be in love with self. The whole confidence one gets to be a lively joyous one comes from the self love. Complimenting oneself is not bad at all until it reached the height of obsession. Doesn’t it happen that when you have donned a new dress and is looking prettier than usual, there is an unmistakable spring in step and smile on lips? Also, complimenting others for little things is an important gesture too. There is hairline difference between complimenting and flattering. Genuine complimenting does make someone happy and frequent flattering brand you as fool and tarnish your image as someone-not-to-be believed.

So, pack you basket full of scents of positive vibes and flowers to tickle people to have chuckles around.

Spread the smiles |Be Kind | Be Happy!