Best way to frighten somebody is to cry out aloud boo..!! No,that a passe now; new age word is commitment!
Be it of any species or any breed, it just searches for and presses the panic button and pressure increases.
Haven't you experienced the moment of awkward nervousness when one fine day you are happily engrossed in doing some work and some snooty person comes,taps and asks for commitment for finishing the same by end of day!Though you may nod your head,but scenario changes completely after that.Now,you are struggling to complete the task instead of doing it carefree.
And isn't it the similar case in relationships .The slight hint of commitment is enough to puncture the ever inflated confidence of a regular Casanova.A dizzy feeling and mumbling of words followed by a desperate run is a common symptom found in people suffering from commitment phobia.Sometimes,such commitment blues are not only because of general phobia but commitment to a specific person.When someone demands,that's when you think about it and react . Commitment is not a cone of ice cream but a sip of bitter coffee.When you drink it ,you are pretty sure about why you are having it and how much you want to have it.It's no casual but comes with a well headed decision.
It is a strong word which has different impact on different people.Some draw strength from it ,some get shattered like glass,some act like parasites while some just feel burdened with pressure of it.
But I feel that it is a crazy word ,it brings security and balance but also attracts fear of not able to sustain and insecurity of losing it.One just has to know how to fine tune it to do the right amount at right moment to not go on its bitter side ,rather enjoy the sweet stability that comes with it.
Be it of any species or any breed, it just searches for and presses the panic button and pressure increases.
And isn't it the similar case in relationships .The slight hint of commitment is enough to puncture the ever inflated confidence of a regular Casanova.A dizzy feeling and mumbling of words followed by a desperate run is a common symptom found in people suffering from commitment phobia.Sometimes,such commitment blues are not only because of general phobia but commitment to a specific person.When someone demands,that's when you think about it and react . Commitment is not a cone of ice cream but a sip of bitter coffee.When you drink it ,you are pretty sure about why you are having it and how much you want to have it.It's no casual but comes with a well headed decision.
It is a strong word which has different impact on different people.Some draw strength from it ,some get shattered like glass,some act like parasites while some just feel burdened with pressure of it.
But I feel that it is a crazy word ,it brings security and balance but also attracts fear of not able to sustain and insecurity of losing it.One just has to know how to fine tune it to do the right amount at right moment to not go on its bitter side ,rather enjoy the sweet stability that comes with it.
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